The Words of Dae Mo Nim (Mrs. Hyo Nam Kim -- Hoon Mo Nim)

The Lifestyle of Blessed Families after the Great Pardon

Dae Mo Nim
December 16, 2006
Edited by the Department of Education and Planning of Chung Pyung Heaven and Earth Training Center

Note: On Dec. 16, 2006, the 2nd day of the '7th Special Workshop for the New Beginning of Cheon Il Guk Blessed Families,' at the Cheonseong Wanglim Palace (Heavenly Palace), Dae Mo Nim spoke about the things Blessed Families must strictly observe from now on.

We must not think that it is all finished after the Holy Burning Ceremony, Holy Wine Ceremony, and the Holy Song Sessions. If we don't live a life of Absolute Faith, Absolute Love, and Absolute Obedience after the Holy Wine Ceremony, it is possible for us to live mistakenly and commit sins again. Therefore, our life after this ceremony is what is most important.

Please listen carefully to what I am about to say, and observe the content strictly. When I asked God what Blessed Families should absolutely live by, God spoke of the 'Path to Heaven.' The following content explains the way in which we should live.

God said we must form true families. It is understandable why the husband and wife could not love each other until now. It is because True Parents, in order to untangle history, matched and blessed descendants whose ancestors committed sins against each other, trusting that we would live with Absolute Faith, Absolute Love, and Absolute Obedience. The Korean-Japanese and the Japanese-Korean couples are especially bound in this way. If those couples could live with Absolute Faith, Absolute Love, and Absolute Obedience, the ancestors would have become happy, but we could not live in that way.

If there is resentment between the husband and wife, you must think 'this is the tangled karma of the ancestors in the past,' and the husband must absolutely love the wife, the wife must give beauty and love to the husband, the parents, interest and love to children, and the children, respect to their parents, in accordance with the Principle. In this way, you must become families of true love that True Parents have shown us. The problem of not being able to love because of the tangled past of the ancestors can also be solved through Ancestor Liberation and Ancestor Blessing, because the ancestors then become Absolute Good Spirits.

I ask you to become precious families who will not fight after the Holy Wine Ceremony and establish true families.

You cannot have fallen nature. If we look for God's attribute and enter into it, it is 'love.' If God did not have love, He would not have to pardon us today. In order for us to become children that resemble God, we cannot have fallen nature. Jealousy, anger, resentment, greed, egotism, arrogance, discontent and complaints must not be a part of you. These fallen natures come from Satan centering on Lucifer. We must first admit that we have jealousy, greed, arrogance, complaints, and anger in our hearts. Only after we admit it, can we repent. After this Holy Wine Ceremony, there should be no more fallen nature.

You must never drink, smoke or use drugs. Alcohol has often created fallen nature, inhibiting true families from forming, inducing fornication and abuse of words. Both alcohol and tobacco cause sickness and pain, and lead to fornication. The culture of drinking and smoking must be dissolved.

You must never commit adultery. You must never see, touch, or take and eat with immoral intentions, any man or woman that is not your beloved husband or wife. Some people think that 'seeing and touching are not sins, only taking and eating is a sin.' However, seeing and touching a woman besides your beloved wife with immoral intentions is also a sin. The wife should not use thoughtless words and do things to her husband, thinking 'since my husband knows the Principle, he would never look at another woman with adulterous intentions.' The same goes for the husband. Adulterous blood runs through our lineage. Since Adam and Eve fell because of illicit sex, all human history contains this sin. That is why there is always a danger of committing immoral acts if we are placed in that kind of environment. You must never see, touch, or take and eat with immoral intentions, anybody who is not your beloved wife or husband.

You must not use public money personally. I know how dangerous public money is. If a member with financial difficulty comes to me and asks me to improve their situation so that they could live better, their ancestors could have abused public money. Public money is like poison.

You must also never violate others' hearts. You must be careful with words. You have to know how much pain some carelessly spoken word could cause another person. Some people may say 'I can't do anything about it because that is my personality,' but that is wrong. Your personality must become good too. If you speak thoughtlessly, your own descendants will become the victim. You must never forget the fact that if you tell others what you have mistakenly seen, or heard, your descendants will suffer from sickness and pain.

Words are seeds. If it falls on the ground, it will sprout. Words of love will turn into buds of love, and words of evil will turn into evil buds. If you see a member make a mistake, you must think 'I must protect that family so that Satan will never enter them again' and be careful with what you say.

From now on, you must live with God and True Parents, not with Satan. In order to do that, you have to live a lifestyle of reporting. Bow to True Parents when you wake up in the morning, and when you start your daily routine. You must report everything in your daily life. There is nothing that I do not report to God and True Parents about when I do the works of Chung Pyung. If you don't report, Satan will be with you.

You must go to church. God's Day is not only January 1st, but Sundays are also God's Days. You must live your week by the words you receive from the pastor of your church on Sunday. In order to live good lives, you must go to church on Sundays. When you stop going to church once, twice, then a month, and eventually a year, you will start living with Satan as a result. Please don't forget to go to church.

If someone doesn't show up, you must visit that person in the same day or at least make a phone call. There are some members who don't come to church because they feel the church doesn't need me at all. They have no interest in me' So if there was someone who didn't come to church on Sunday, please take interest in this person and ask why he/she was not there.

What is the culture of our church? It is true love, to live for the sake of others. Therefore the younger families must attend the elder families and the elder families must love the younger families. We must also become families that love and live for the others, that feel the pain when others are suffering, and share the joy when others are happy.

Through the Holy Wine Ceremony, you will be reborn as children under the dominion of God and True Parents. From now on, our life will be a life sincerely dedicated to God and True Parents. Please understand that when you live like this, Heavenly Fortune will be with you and you will become a happy family.

With the 300 billion Absolute Good Spirits and the Absolute Good Ancestors, good will eventually prosper, contrary to the past, and the era has come in which we can say 'everything is possible,' 'doing is accomplishing,' 'we too can live a happy life,' 'I am happy,' 'I am joyful.' We must become one heart, one body and one mindset with God and True Parents, and after we live that kind of life here on earth, go automatically to Heaven in the spirit world where God and True Parents reside. Know that we are living in a time when all members can become Heavenly citizens because of True Parents and the Absolute Good Spirits, and please become Blessed Families that will create the same kind of society, nation, world and cosmos.

Please put into practice, without fail, what I have taught you today, and become Blessed Families who fulfill the way of divine sons and daughters, and children of filial piety in front of God and True Parents.

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