Absolute Sex: How Often, When and Where?

Shahram Sedehi
October 19, 2011

Sex is like eating Food

How often, when, and where should we do sex?

This is one question that opens up, lots of other questions about sexual relationships. How does one show his/her commitment? Should there be a scheduled appointments for it? Should it be when it is convenient? Or should it be up the mood of one or both of the couple?

Absolute sex means just that, it is absolute and unchanging. Absolute sex does not depend on schedules, convenience or moods; it is like God always ready to give love and as well, return beauty.

Practically how is that possible? Well, let's pretend for a moment we are talking about food, instead of sex. In popular culture, no one questions when and in what mood and where anybody eats, as long as they seem happier than before they ate and are overall healthy.

How often do you hear, someone you are sharing a delicious meal with, saying "I am not eating with you anymore, because you were an hour late than our appointed time! Of course if the meal was really bad tasting, then someone might complain even in that way, but almost never, people will have an issue, if the food was delicious!

The same goes for sex, the purpose of it is to bring happiness, whatever it takes! It means you try it at different locations, times and moods and see what happens. Just like trying different restaurants, cooks, menus, ingredients, so on!

Absolute sex is like an uninhibited conversation with a friend, instead of a training session with your manager, where you may pass or lose! If the sex was not good at one circumstance, it does not mean it won't be in a similar one.

It is very important that I illustrate what I mean by "uninhibited". To me, it is freely initiated and responded quality of actions, without any agendas. When, I listen to Father Moon, I used to feel so confused, as what was his agenda in talking to us, since I thought of it as management training session? Yet, now I realize, he is pure passion, no agendas! Many Unificationist are trying to be the "expert' on predicting what Father does next, yet almost always they fail in their ideas.

Father rarely chooses particular schedules, frequency, duration, location, mood, or convenience to give a talk. He could talk for 20 hours or he may just blurt out a sentence. He may speak on a boat in very severe storm, or may talk to disciples at a peaceful garden with a pond full of colored fishes. He may give a passionate and joyful talk, right after he has lost a son in a car accident, and just as well he may give a very serious talk, right after a great victory!