The Words of the Sedehi Family

Sex: Commitment or Conversation?

Shahram Sehdi
September 25, 2011

What is fidelity?

What is commitment in marriage?

is it, NOT looking at other women?

or is it, NOT having sex with other women?

is it, NOT thinking of other Women?

Is there more to it?

Oh yes, You say it means God centered love with one's woman!

How does God actually center Himself/Herself in a marriage?

Or how do we invite Him/Her into our sex life?

How do we know we are having God-centered sex?

What is the difference between feeling God in one's sex life and not?

Is the difference between, "not feeling guilty" about having sex, versus feeling "guilty"?

Is the difference between doing it with one's woman versus somebody else's woman?

Or does the difference shows, when you are not willing to have sex with your woman, unless her eyes are bursting with tears, since you made her laugh so hard?

...Or when your woman makes love to you after this conversation...it's late night, you come home, all soaked in the cold sweat of failure, shame and guilt and your woman says, "Let's go celebrate!", and you say "how can I?...don't you understand, today, I lost my job, I failed in my mission, I even scolded God!" And she says, "that's the more reason we need to celebrate the fact that, despite it all, you have come home to me, your woman!" 

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