The Words of the Toffey Family

Two Brothers!

Kyle Toffey
November 27, 2009

Somehow the will of God is not being done and this is causing our Father much stress. Both think they are in the right and are fulfilling their true destiny.

I work and live between two brothers that are fighting, disunited, jealous and are in a stalemate relationship. Somehow the will of God is not being done and this is causing our Father much stress. Both think they are in the right and are fulfilling their true destiny. This has been brewing for many years.

Sometimes we see hope, other times everything seems hopeless. Key figures just can’t seem to unite the brothers or with God’s will. This causes so much heart ache and pain for many people who are affected by this disunity. Truly North Korea and South Korea are brothers of one blood who should unite. It is so sad to see how the disunity of these two countries has caused untold suffering for heaven and earth. But this is a story that is played over and over like in the Middle East. This tragic Biblical problem exists on all levels from the macro down to the individual. Every day as I drive along the border of North Korea I feel this heart ache.

There are so many things beyond my control. There are so many things even God and True Parents can’t control. I can’t make North and South Korea unite, even though I live right here on the 38th parallel. As a movement we can’t force peace in the Middle East. I can’t force others to unite. Everyone has their own portion of responsibility to fulfill. Sure I can pray and do conditions but ultimately, as God found out in the Garden of Eden, people don’t always fulfill their responsibility and no one else can fulfill their responsibility for them.

Yet I do have a responsibility that is uniquely mine. I have a responsibility to live a Principled Life. This is my 5% responsibility that takes 100% of my heart, soul and mind. I have to become a perfected being of love and heart. No one can do this for me. I have to love my wife, children, community and God. And before I take the speck out of someone else’s eye, I need to gain victory myself. I have to learn to love my fellow brothers before I can expect someone else to do so or expect a country to do so. The best condition I can make is by overcoming the resentments and ill feelings I have. I firmly believe that the random acts of love I perform in my daily walk while striving to be a joy-maker will have a ripple effect far and wide. In this way I can have a cosmic affect on history. 

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