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The Love of True Man and Woman
1. Original Love of Man and Woman
When God's most beautiful masterpieces, male and female, love each other centering on God, this love would be the most wonderful love, the very first love, and not a mundane love. This love would be the most wonderful love, the representative of all other kinds of love, and a love that would give out light eternally.
When a man and a woman love each other, it is the problem whether this love equals God's Will or the standard desired by God. We must ask whether the love between man and woman equals the love which God had in mind as a model. We can reach a conclusion that if the first man and woman had become united through love centering on God, then they would have become the model of a God-centered universe.
God also would have desired to see this kind of love from man. Man and woman would also have desired this kind of love from each other. This kind of true love has to be the core of the universe. It would become a standard similar to the rules of meters and centimeters.
The love between man and woman must be a love centered on the ideal of creation. To love a husband or a wife -- This love should not just be centered on their own couple. It should be centered on God's ideal of creation.
If man and woman is a God-centered couple, we can conclude that the wife can go wherever the man goes, and the man can go wherever the woman lives, and the couple can go wherever God dwells.
The one who gave birth to my physical body is my earthly parents, and the one who gave me eternal life is my vertical parent. What makes possible to unite the vertical parent and the horizontal parent, is love. When a perfect man and woman's love become united in the midst of God's Will, God's love would dwell and would become the base where my life would sprout.
God's love and man's love are essentially same. Love is what tries to become unified. Why do man and woman miss each other? This is because only man through woman, or woman through man can possess God. Love means to like each other.
When we think that God is the origin of the dual characteristics, we must praise the sacred value of man and woman, and at the same time, we must become persons who can praise the precious value of God even more.
In the heart of a man, there is a woman whom God loves; and in the heart of this woman who is the man's object, there is also a man loved by God. When they come to praise each other, God would watch and feel happy, and the whole creation would also feel joy. The content of happiness which the man and woman share would become the valuable content of joy of both heaven and earth. The man and woman loving and embracing each other, itself becomes the place where the whole universe would unite. Original form of creation realized in the midst of God's ideal is like that.
Originally, man was to meet a woman who can make him happy, and woman also was to meet a man who can make her happy as well. Furthermore, this meeting of man and woman should transcend the limit of man and even make God and the whole creation happy. Then, for the sake of this couple, the whole creation on this earth would be mobilized and would desire to be dominated by that couple. The birds would sing songs for them, and the butterflies would fly and dance for them. God would feel joy, man would feel joy, and the whole creation would feel joy. From this kind of a situation if the history of human ancestors had started, then this would have become the original ideal world of creation.
The reason a being called woman was created was in order for it to become the spouse of man, Adam. If there was no Adam, then what was called Eve was not necessary. Why did Adam become to exist? Adam was also created because he was a necessary being for Eve.
Human beings, man or woman, are not created to live for the sake of one's self, but are created to exist for the sake of the their reciprocal partners.
Therefore, man was not created as a man for the sake of himself. No matter how beautiful the woman is, or even if that woman hates man, look at how woman is created. Woman was not created like that just for herself. We are not born for the sake of ourselves, we are born for the sake of our spouses. This was the way we were born.
Parent and children start to rotate when the parent live for their children and children live for their parent and when both live for each other. The more they live for each other, the faster they would rotate. This is the ideal style. It is not square, but it becomes three-dimensionally round. To live for the sake of each other means to push each other; therefore, the more we live for each other, the faster we would rotate, and then we would form a sphere which will allow us to exist eternally.
Therefore, the world is like a sphere. Our faces are also round. Our eyes are round. They all have to give and take completely. Veins and arteries give and take. We get sick when there is a way to give but no way to receive. It happens when equality is broken. Therefore, moving beings cannot come to exist eternally unless they form a rule to act for others. We must know this.
Male was created for the sake of female, and female was created for the sake of male. God cannot dwell in places where one insists on his own being. But God would dwell together when one values the other. We should walk on our two legs according to the Principled way of thinking following the rules.
Woman was born to meet man, and man was born to meet woman, right? This is the very truth. Therefore, according to this principle, we must go out in search for the realm of blessing. It is the most evil to leave this realm of the very truth.
Why was a man created? It was not for study, money, or power. It was for woman. For woman, man was created. The reason man's bones are made stronger than woman is not for him to earn money and live by himself. It is to support his wife and children. The physical organs of man are different from those of woman. For who are they for? They are not created for yourselves. Man's were made for woman, so it's woman's. Woman's is, therefore, man's. Have you ever thought this way?
What is the best thing in this world? Couldn't it be woman to man and man to woman? The love that man likes is not his own, and the love that woman likes is also not her own. Isn't that right? If you are all alone, would you want to love someone? You would, right?
When we say man, we mean a man and a woman. When we look at one man, he has to be with a woman, and when we look at one woman, she also has to be with a man. A man is not born because he desires to, but woman which man needs is also not born because she desired to. After they were born, they realize themselves as being a man or a woman. After growing older as a man and as a woman, we know that it is our way of life to come to realize that each other is a necessary being to become a husband and wife.
When a man was born as a man, did he born knowing there is woman, or not knowing? After he was born, if he found out there is only man, would he have felt bad? Also, when a woman is born, wouldn't she also feel bad if she finds out that there is only woman? Wouldn't that be so? Then, when a woman is born, was she born knowing that there is man, or not knowing? I myself was born not knowing, but the person who gave birth to me knew. The reason you are born as a woman is because there is a man who needs you. At the same time, the reason I was born as a man is because there is a woman who needs me. Isn't that so? We were born knowing everything.
Love cannot be realized alone. Where does love come from? It is not what comes from myself, it is what comes from an object. Because love comes from an object, I must lower my head and live for the sake of the object. The heavenly law, "Live for the sake of others" comes from here. The most precious thing is approaching ourselves, but when we try to receive this, it is so precious that we realize the need to form a philosophy to "live for others."
Love is what even God cannot realize alone. Love can always be realized through a reciprocal base. Where does love begin from? It does not begin from myself, but it grows up from a spouse.
Human beings have love. However, love does not appear when a person is alone. When man is alone, love does not appear. When a woman stands in a reciprocal position, then love appears. When a partner in a reciprocal position appears, then love appears for the first time.
When we say that parent's love and husband and wife's love is wonderful, we are absolutely not talking about love centered on myself. Love is not what starts from myself, but is what starts from a partner in a reciprocal position. Everyone must know this point. Love is what appears from a husband or a wife, and love is what starts from sons and brothers and sisters. Love is not what starts from myself alone, it is what starts from a partner in a reciprocal position. Then, who is the master of love? The partner in the reciprocal position becomes the master of love.
When a harmony of love is realized between two opposite sexes, a circular movement is formed. If two opposite sexes unite with love and bear fruit, God will come down and man will rise toward God, meeting at the center point. God will become the centripetal point of the circle, allowing the circle to become a sphere. From this centripetal point, God can reach out to any four directions. This point is where the harmony of love is realized, the life begins, and mutuality starts. This is because there is a strength of love. Therefore, the power that activates and embraces everything in the universe is love.
The Unification Church has found the providence of love which was hidden for six thousand years; therefore, the Unification Church has tried to spread the foundation of Blessing in order to realize the perfection of the ideal of creation centering on God. In another words, the Unification Church has been forming the place of holy of holy of love through the Blessings. We must understand that new life begins here.
What do you think is the center where all physical cells and spiritual elements become one hundred percent united? That is the sexual organs of man and woman. When a man and a woman pass the period of adolescence, or the period in which they become physically and spiritually matured, and come to the road of love, both body and spirit completely resonate and become perfect.
What do you think the color of love would be like? Do you think that it would be black at night, white during daytime, and yellow during evenings? What do you think the color of love would be like? In the center color of love, there is a strength that can bring peace and unity, a strength that can form a thought of equality of mankind. Therefore, if we happen to carelessly enter the place of Holy of holy of love, we would be burnt and be killed.
Don't you think that the concept of love of the Unification Church is beautiful? The color of love in today's American society is in one word, the color of terrible death. Through the love between man and woman, instead of realizing an eternal world of ideal of creation, we are sinking down to the den of death. Men and women should keep their Holy of Holy clean until the time of their Blessing, and once they love each other, they should continue to love. However, American people are villains, man and woman invading the Holy of holy of love.
The American people who do not think of marriage as the Blessings from God, are just patients with bad eyesight, not being able to see their future. They are not contributors of founding the Fatherland, but are destroyers. If the American society continues to go this way, it will not have hope even of tomorrow, but just filled with desperation. It is more clearer than fire that America would be self-destructed not only by God's judgement, but also by men who have lost their humanity.
Where is God's Holy of Holies? It is the sexual organs of man and woman before the fall where love dwelt. This is the Holy of Holies of Heaven.
What is love? Love is the Holy of Holies where God can dwell. We must clean this Fallen world through love. We have already made clear that Adam and Eve who had to pass the period of adolescence without any problem, failed to do so and went off the track, became the fall.
The first human ancestor Eve, first had the illicit love relationship with the archangel and fell. And then because of this, Eve also fell physically by physically having relationship with Adam. Therefore, blood lineage of sin has been inherited to mankind of later generations.
We must know the fact that God can never dwell in places where there are traces of Satan remaining. In order for man to receive God's love must first die and re-born again. Even in the human society when a woman gets married for the second time, there is no reason that the husband would love her if she had not yet forgotten her ex-husband.
Therefore, God has been carrying on this providence of restoration in order to make man cleans their sins through indemnity.
What is the bridegroom before the bride? He is a virtuous man. He is the world-level, virtuous man. You have heard of a virtuous woman before, but you have never heard of a virtuous man, right? Before the whole mankind in the bride's position, Jesus was the virtuous man. Jesus was the man of man officially recognized by the heaven and earth, the history, the age, and the present and the future. Couldn't the people in the bride's position before Jesus, even realize the noun, "virtuous woman?" It is the way of a robber if you are trying to become a bride of Jesus with you not even being able to become a virtuous woman. How would it be if a woman living in a cave of robbers say that her husband is the world famous President? If she said, "Oh, President Kennedy is my husband," everyone would think she became crazy.
The Christians are doing this kind of a game. From a position like a beggar, Christians are saying to the prince of God, "Oh, my bridegroom, please come."
The Christians wearing rags are saying to Jesus, "Please come here and live with me." This is why Jesus with so deep a resentment, has not been able to be liberated. If Jesus has not been liberated, then can God who sent Jesus be liberated from his resentment (han)? No. He cannot. God could not be liberated, and Jesus also could not be liberated. Therefore, the whole creation created by God could not be liberated as well.
Now, are you allowed to love someone as you wish, or not? When a man calls you on the street, are you to follow him or not? No, you are not. But you always follow, don't you? (laughter) You should not have this kind of a nature. You should protect your physical body until the time comes. You should not allow a goblin like man to take over your heart. Men wondering around on the streets without any purpose are all goblins. Are you going to allow your fate to be taken over by this kind of a man? This is not a simple problem. Your fate is only one in the life-time. If you make a wrong step, your life would become unstable all throughout your life. Isn't that so? This is same to men. Until now, we have been emphasizing women to keep their purity, but from now on, men should also keep their purity. Then, everything would be restored. No matter how evil this world may be, no matter how rough this world may be, you should not do things that would detract from your original way.
You should not ruin your purity during your adolescence, which is the precious time when you cleanse and indemnify the purity lost by Adam and Eve during their youth. You should preserve your purity precious and clean, and you should have the mind and the determination that "even if I have to live a thousand or ten thousands of years alone, my love will absolutely never be mis-treated." If you do not love people, or the nation, you would not be able to meet a person you can love. If you do not love the world, you would not be able to have a person you can love, and if you do not love God, you would not be able to have a person you can love either. This is the traditional thought of in the Unification Church. Therefore, after you have loved God, world, and the people, then you can love your wife or your husband. This is the Principle.
To a person who has lost the value of love, what difference would it make even if we made him receive a university-level education? The education would only give knowledge creating an individualistic, materialistic person.
Korean soy bean stew (den jan chige) can only be delicious when served in a 'tok pe gi (unglazed earthenware bowl). Similarly, training of personality can only be fulfilled to its goal when it is done based on love.
World civilization must flower based on an artistic harmony. This is similar to burnt Kalbi being the most delicious when served on plates and soy bean paste served in 'tok pe gi. If you really know the real taste of soy bean soup, you will never be able to forget it wherever you go.
Similarly, if man once tastes the real taste of love, he will never be able to change. As we easily get tired of eating instant foods made only sweet, if we can find love anywhere so easily like instant foods, we would not be able to say that it is True Love.
Recently, we see people here and there making love like instant foods. This is the problem. Even if we take a bath of perfume, love will not be deepened. I would say that love would be deepened, purified and would last longer when a couple living in a country side take a cold bath and sleep together.
If a couple brushes their teeth in order to kiss each other, it is not true love. This is because the smell of the tooth paste would stop them from enjoying the taste of their individual body odor. When I look at people kissing each other after brushing their teeth, it makes me wander whether they are kissing in order to taste love or in order to taste the tooth paste. When we look at recent generations, we can say that mathematical, artificial, and deceitful love is so widespread to the level that it confuses our concept of what human happiness is. We can say that this kind of love is the main criminal that is leading this world to destruction.
When you meet the person whom you like or love, it is a natural instinct between two opposite sexes to want to hug and kiss each other. The reason I am trying to get in contact with the environment, is to love this universe. This is a natural act of human beings in order to find a reciprocal partner.
If all mankind meets man to woman or woman to man based on the theory of reciprocal partnership, there would occur no accidents or acts violating the order of love. The order of true love would be formed when man and woman meet based on the theory of a reciprocal partnership.
However, if you stand in a position violating the order, ignoring and denying the environment, the ideal order of love cannot be set up.
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