TF has explained a spouse exists to raise up the other spouse. That marriage is not for instance self-centered happiness but for giving. To us 1800 couples he used to draw diagrams of what we look like in spirit and character and explained the purpose of the blessing. I will get into this subject later in detail.

Our marriages exist to give birth to a new humanity, purified lineage. Our marriages exists to serve our spouse and in turn sacrifice our marriages or families for our community, etc. TF matches couples for the quality of children produced, for the ability of one spouse to heal another and for producing couples that have a strong ability to embrace the most diverse cultural problems because of the diversity between themselves, digest them and serve towards guiding towards others towards perfection (of course this means the couples must first find harmony, unity and holy love themselves and then accept their self-sacrificing service path).

Thus TF told a brother from the 1800 matching ..."I love you so deeply ... but I can't match you with that sister you desire because you both are so similar. Your marriage would be a bore, blah. Your children would be blah. I must match you with someone that is very different to yourself." This brother was choosing someone nearly identical to his soft character because he was seeking instant communication, harmony and peace. A great many of the marriages in the western world follow this pattern of seeking a partner similar to oneself. It's called falling-in-love. Good vibes. A common base of various items are recognized, barriers of individual self-protection or identity are allowed to be removed, spiritual energy integrates and the couple feel they are in love. It is very self-serving, each person thinking what they can take from the other person. However after the courtship and honeymoon and smells of the others persons manure in the bathroom shock and as problems of life unf! old often the magic of sameness disappears and physical, emotional or spiritual divorce occurs.

TF can see into the future how each matched couple can potentially affect the spouse in growth and this is the very special privilege of being matched by TF....for the future spiritual growth and purification each can effect on the other, of course if their love of God and TPs is strong enough to endure the difference. The opposite is the current cultural situation in America of cultural sameness of male and females. 

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